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What would life look like if you chose to feel your way through life, not see your way through life?

March 27, 2018
When you look around you right now what do you notice? Is it the stuff that surrounds you that brings you meaning and purpose or is it the people? Is it how you spend your time or is it what you give and receive from others? Hopefully a combination of all of these things will be your answer.
Hopefully as you look around you, you notice things that bring you joy, you will notice the items you have purchased, pictures of people who you care about and spend your time with….and so on and so on… you get where i’m going with this right?
Everything that is around you is there because it has meaning to you. You create the reality in which you find yourself. You get to choose in every moment how you spend your time, your money and your energy. You are actually in charge of it all. Unfortunately though it doesn’t always feel like this is the case. Sometimes we feel as if life is dictating to us instead of us creating the life. It’s all a matter of perspective – how do you feel in every moment…
Ask yourself, what would life look like if you actively and intentional chose to feel your way through life instead of see your way. You know, really feel, intuitively if things are right for you or not. Notice the things around you now, did you consciously choose those things? Were you in a place where you were excited to receive them or are they just there…
It’s kind of enlightening isn’t it to look around and really take stock. If you are not consciously creating through feeling intuitively through your days then your subconscious is doing this for you. Your subconscious mind will always choose and actually it doesn’t always choose what we would like it to choose. It doesn’t have the infinite value of logic and reasoning like the conscious mind it only has patterns of behaviour from your past to draw upon. Mostly the behaviours and thoughts you had about yourself and the world from when you were born until you were 7 years old. How wise and intentional were you in those formative years? When I ask myself that question I don’t feel particularly inspired. What did you learn about the world and yourself back then because these are the same neuro-pathways that are being activated to continue your life’s experience now. Are these pathways really making you happy?
What does really make you happy and what are you willing to do to create this for yourself? I bet you sit there and whinge and whine to your friends that you wish things were different but really are you willing to change it? It takes work and awareness and logic. It takes analysis and inspiration and time and creativity. Are you ready for this?
 
Here is your to-do this week to get this process started:
 
  1. Make a list this week of all the things you wish to change.
  2. Make a list of all the things you are willing to let go of and do away with to create your happiness.
  3. Make a list of all the things you wish were different.
  4. Make a list of all the things you have the power to change in your life.
  5. Make a list of the people who can support you on this journey.
  6. Use your time wisely and start making a commitment to reach for the joy and the changes you wish to make.
What you allow will continue and what you create for yourself will change. You can do this!
Nicole

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