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Good news! We get to choose what behaviours and beliefs we take on from our parents!

August 22, 2017
Did you know this or have you just blindly adopted the beliefs, expectations and thought patterns of our parents? There is a point in every woman’s life that she must step in to analyzing what her parents were like. What did they teach you, in what way has it served you and are there some things you would like to change for yourself and your children that perhaps didn’t set you up for greater levels of success.  Beliefs and expectations are the most common behaviors that are passed down, even more than addictions or ideas. The good part of this is that you are not your parents patterns – you get to step into a powerful position and choose your own perspective.
Here are 3 ways that you can empower yourself to make better decisions for yourself.
  1. Be clear about what you want – when you are hungry for change and success you are more likely to adapt new beliefs and ideas that will strengthen you. To grow we must change and it’s important that we adapt and stretch ourselves to be better people. Start by knowing what you are reaching and striving for and know what you are willing to give up to achieve this.
  2. Be strategic – many of us can be impulsive in our decision making, we often decide what feels the best in the moment but our decisions don’t always have positive longevity. Be strategic in your decision making – how will this decision look and feel to me in the months and years ahead. With a level head and with self confidence and conviction you begin to make healthier and more successful decisions by playing the long game of success and happiness instead of the short game of impulsivity!
  3. Own your passion – if you decisions do not get you excited they are not aligned with your passion. When you know what you are passionate about and in what ways you want your life to grow and change you are more likely to make sacrifices to make it happen. Great decisions and success come from stretch and aligning with your passions make it more rewarding and enticing along the way.
All of us have the power to adjust our behavior to really live the life we want to live! Check in with yourself – are you making the decisions you want to make or are you simply repeating the same stories and decisions your parent’s made. Make every day and every decision count – one by one you will improve your life and stretch to levels of success you didn’t know were possible!
Nicole

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