How do I let go of control?

July 19, 2017
Control is a behavioral adaptation that we engage in when we feel unsafe and uncertain in the world. These feelings of fear trigger us to begin to micro manage and try to get traction on the things in our lives to make us feel safer. We can reach to control people, situations, money, food, exercise and even our time. The cost however in reaching for and engaging in this control is often greater than we think.
When we have the need to control we disengage in the co-creation process of our life with the universe. We give a massive middle finger to the universe saying I can’t trust you, I need to manage this myself it’s not safe for me on my journey.
When we do this we disconnect from our higher self and those voices of internal knowingness and wisdom we are all born with. It becomes very important that we realize the consequences of control and the cost of this disconnection.
We all seek greater insights and connections about our path and the purpose of our journey. To achieve this we have to be open to the influence and divine sequence of our growth which means surrendering control.
Ask yourself – ‘do you believe that your are safe in the world and the universe has your best interests in mind.’ If you answered no to this question your trust and faith are compromised. Instead align yourself with believing that the universe is here to grow and strengthen you and there is purpose and meaning to every single thing you experience.
Life is a long game of growth and progression yet many of us feel the need to cut corners when we step out of trust with the universe. Control is the greatest way that we sever this tie of co-creation with the universe and it makes us experience greater disconnection and despair.
As you go through this week work on consciously surrendering your will and being open to receive the divine flow that comes from co-creating with the universe. Step into a place of gratitude that we don’t have to know everything at this moment and that you are in a divine process of ascension and acceleration. The one thing that remains true for all of us on this planet is that growth is constant and inevitable, we get to choose however how much we resist this or whether we surrender our control and receive the lessons with greater peace and grace…

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