How do I know that I am being my authentic self?

January 31, 2017
How do you know who you really are? This is the million dollar question that I think we all ask ourselves every week. Who are we really and where are we going?
The answer to this is everything and nothing. We spend so much time in ridicule, comparison and judgement that we manufacture and attach ourselves to an idea of what we think we should do. The cost of this is huge as we completely disconnect to what is real, what flows and feels authentic.
The first step to detaching from all this junk is to make a decision to show up for yourself. Be real, feel feelings and emotions and speak your truth. This is easier said than done as it takes time, work and effort to detach from the programs and limitations we have placed on ourselves…sad isn’t it…
After we have broken this down we have the opportunity to see what is left. What is left is the authentic self, what remains is the peace, the knowing and the conviction and the true person you are. Spend time listening to what she says about things, what are her opinions and what does she dream about. What is under all of this is LOVE.
We are love, we are here to connect to it, to express it, to dive into it and to share it. This is the basis of every one of us. The way that we choose to do this is individual, we all have different alignments and we choose different paths but to live and exchange love is actually the authentic self that lies underneath.
What can you do this week to be a greater source of love in the world? Here are some suggestions –
FORGIVE – the biggest obstacle to your happiness and success is your commitment to being angry, frustrated and holding on to things that do not serve you. Make conscious effort to forgive everything and everyone that has ever hurt you or offended you in any way. This takes you closer to being a source of love in the world.
GIVE MORE THAN YOU GET – make a conscious effort to be the light in the room. Be a source of optimism, happiness, encouragement and service to others. When you enter your day with this attitude you always feel full of love and you are more present in every moment.
GO BIG OR GO HOME – we either get to choose risk or regret… When it comes to life we have the choice to play big, to take risks, to love hard and risk being disappointed or we can live with regrets. LOVE big, often, generously and with no expectation of anything in return. This almost guarantees you a life of abundance, fulfillment and success!

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