Why the good opinions of others don’t matter!

March 20, 2016
Why do we invest so much time in the good opinion of others? Why do we align ourselves to the limitations and projections of others. Our stuff is our stuff just like their stuff is their stuff. It is human nature to always see life through your lens. Therefore we must not be influenced by the lenses of others.
It truly doesn’t matter what others think or believe about you or your achievements. What matters is your level of commitment to living authentically and following your truth.
If and when you receive criticism be encouraged that it is never about you. It is always about the projections, limiting beliefs and emotions of others. Put up a screen or put yourself in a pink bubble and protect yourself from the projections of others. Keep looking straight ahead, committed to your life and your purpose and do not be distracted looking left and right looking for approval, praise or validation.
Unfortunately people do a really good job at making comments and social commentary on the lives of others. Most of these comments if negative come from feelings of unworthiness, personal doubt or not feeling enough. When we understand that this projection is their stuff as a result of their lens on life it enables us to have a thicker skin, to let the comments slide off and most importantly understand that it is not about us!
On International Women’s Day this year we launched our short film “I Choose for Myself”. We set out to create an opportunity for women to understand their behavioural patterns and their mind chatter. We did this through exploring two women as they enter into the day and express their struggle and their success in mastering their mindset and behaviours. If you haven’t seen the film yet we encourage you to visit
The film also gives us a reminder that we hold all the power to our life and so we must not invest in the opinions of others as they do not matter.

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